Tuesday, September 21, 2004

Reguarding Anonymous Posters with mean things to say.

You know your comments would mean alot more to me if you used your name. I'm sorry if my post offended you .. but it's kind of hard to make ammends to someone who isn't even willing to tell you who they are.

You know you don't have to like me. But this is my blog .. if you don't like it. Don't read it. I'm sorry if my feelings piss you off. I am sure there are plenty of other blogs out there for you to frequent. As for me not being supportive. Well you obviously don't really know me because the people that do know that I am one of the most supportive people around to all my friends, both primary and secondary infertiles .. not to mention any of my friends that don't fall into that category. I actually have spent over the last year on the TTC after loss board and now have moved on to the Pregnancy After Loss board and I have done nothing but support my friends on both those boards. So how dare you acuse me of not being supportive.

But you know what .. if my making a simple post about how my life has changed in the last 3 months has really offended you that bad.. please let me know who you are so that I can make sure I never bother you again incase I frequent your blog or something. Because I really don't want to waste my time posting to or caring about someone who says something so mean and hurtful to me.

You know I have had alot of sadness and alot of pain in my life .. but I have never gone out of my way to try to cause pain to someone the way you 2 anonymous posters did. If I hurt you inadvertantly well then I am very sorry. If your message was in the intent of hurting me. Well I'm sorry but you missed the mark, because I definitely don't want to be friends with someone as bitter and spewing hateful things like that.

You don't have to like what I say .. but my words are my own .. you have no right to tell me what not to say.


Anonymous said...

I agree. This woman is the most supportive, sweetest, most compassionate people that I have ever had the opportunity to meet. To the two who posted the comments, you need to get over your own issues. You two are the selfish ones coming in here and posting things like that! Shame on you!! I'm so glad to hear that she is going to be a mother again. After what she has gone through, she more than deserves this little blessing. You two, on the other hand, talking about pregnancies being shoved in your faces, well, you deserve what you're getting now.


Mias2Angels said...

Oh you poor thing! How aweful for them to do and say!!! I recently had a jerk comment a nasty comment on my blog, thinking it was funny. I was furious. Though we do not know each other much by ways of blogs, I know you from FF. When ever I have ran into you there, you were always warm and kind. Lets their comment roll off your back. They are OBVIOUSLY very JEALOUS! Which is a shame. I can see envious, because to be honest, we all are, but JEALOUSY is a form of hatred and you have nothing to be hated for.

Give yourself a HUGE HUG from me Robin. Enjoy your pregnancy.

Btw, you can delete those nasty posts. I did from my blog stalker (((HUGS)))

Anonymous said...

Shame on both you people for coming on here and saying such horrible things! Steph is one of the sweetest and most caring people I know. Like she said if you don't like it don't read it. Do either of you not have any manners? Oh wait why would you when you are to chicken to not even put your name on your post!!!!!
Huge Hugs from me Steph!!!!!

(mommyof2in04 :))

Mias2Angels said...

Robin, I posted a long post to you hours ago, but I think blogger ate it up. Or maybe it will appear later? Anyway, shame on those women for being such cowards and so mean! (((HUGS))) to you. Don't let 2 rotten eggs spoil your day, or your wonderful pregnancy. I know you from FF and have always been supportive and sweet. That's why I started checking out your blog, to support you!


Christine said...

Wow! I missed this whole thing! Stephanie, ignore them. They obviously don't know you. I'm sorry that they said such hurtful things. WE all know better.

Toni said...

Oh my God. I can't believe that someone would actually write that. Actually, I can - they're probably stupid people that have nothing better to do. Sadly, they are the ones who are missing out on life.

Robin - you are an amazing person - your story has helped me through mine. Please ignore them.

Anonymous said...

OMG!! Steph dont even listen to them, there just trying to be mean and get to you. Your the most nicest person I've ever met, and not selfish at all, I mean you STILL were there for me when I found out I was pregnant, even after your loss you still HELPED! So for them to call you selfish, my gosh they so dont know you, and there just so ignorant for even posting and saying that. Wub you hon!!!! *Brandy (toothfairy from MP)